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Everyone Should Learn a Little about Law

While lawyers and judges are the ultimate legal experts, of course, I believe that every citizen should take the time to learn a little about law for several reasons. First, it is important to know your rights, and knowing them can come in handy if anyone ever accuses you of a crime you didn't commit or threatens you legally in another other way. Second, learning about your local, state, and federal laws can help you act as a better citizen. When election time comes around, you can then truly understand ever change in law being proposed by a candidate and whether it benefits society or not. I plan to share posts about law topics explained in plain English on my new blog, so you can come back often to sharpen your legal knowledge!


Everyone Should Learn a Little about Law

Going Through A Divorce? How To Prepare For Mediation

Kaylee Wells

If you're going through a divorce, and your attorney has recommended mediation, now's the time to prepare. Being prepared for the process can improve your chances of success. If you've never participated in mediation before, you might not know how to proceed. If this is you, read the list provided below. Here are four steps that can help to ensure effective mediation.

Know the Mediator

When it comes to mediation, the best thing you can do is choose the right mediator. First, make sure that your attorney recommends the mediator. This can ensure that the mediator is trained to provide mediation services. Second, familiarize yourself with the mediator you plan to use. Doing your homework will help you to identify any potential biases that might adversely affect the mediation process. Finally, make sure that you're comfortable with the mediator you choose. It's also a good idea to choose a mediator that both you and your spouse can agree on. Agreement about the mediator can help to alleviate some of the stress and anxiety. 

Act in Good Faith

If you've decided to go through with divorce mediation, be prepared to act in good faith. Many people enter mediation expecting the process to fail before it ever gets started. Unfortunately, that approach can lead to serious problems. The best way to avoid complications is to enter mediation with a desire to act in good faith. That way, you're more willing to listen to what the mediator has to say about the situation. 

Come Prepared

If your attorney has recommended divorce mediation, take the time to prepare for the process. One way to do that is to gather everything you'll need for effective mediation. This should include gathering all of the documents you need to prove the existence of marital assets and debts. For instance, you should make a detailed list of everything you own, including cars, houses, and bank account information. This information will come in handy once the mediation enters the assets and debt division phase. 

Be Reasonable

Finally, if you and your spouse have agreed to participate in divorce mediation, be reasonable in your approach. Many people enter mediation with a desire to get everything they want from the divorce. Unfortunately, that approach can create unrealistic expectations and can increase the risk of animosity, and a breakdown in communication. To avoid that risk, be willing to compromise where you can.  A willingness to compromise can help you win where it matters.